Failed you?
You’ve worked hard because you want to see your sibling finish college and see them very successful in the future. You go to work even though you are sick , through the heavy snow storm, freezing rain/ice because you hate to lose 1 day of paid work. You never fail to support them, work overtime if you have to so that you have something for them every month.
I am not asking for something in return all I am really hoping is that for them to have a better life in the future. I dreamed of my siblings to finish college, get a good paying job, have their own happy family in the future. I am not oppose of them getting married, have babies but IN the right time, that their stable enough to have a family.
The last thing I want to see is that my parents will turn their house into an orphanage, still working even though they’re in their age to retire just to support my siblings family, heck no! But knowing my parents I will not be surprised if that will happen.
I hope that young people realize that it is so damn hard to earn money. We don’t pick money from trees nor on the roads, we work for it. For the money that we send every month to pay for your school, we could have finance a brand new car, or save it for an out of the country vacation or cruise.
I am jut an older sister who wish nothing but the best for my siblings.
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I can relate with you
Hi marikit, how are doin? It's been a long time for me to do blogging. Pregnancy and winter times a few months ago really tires me down. But I have a come back now and will be updating my blog from now on.
I understand how you feel in this post. Yeah, it's so hard if we support two families. I've been like that too but mines different. Long story, but right this year by June, I have to stop supporting for a year for my younger bro who's 2nd yr college in nursing coz we have big upcoming expenses this year, especially for my hospital expenses, plus the baby's needs and my removal of conditional status. My husband's work is just enough these days to supplement our needs. But I'm holding on my prayers that I can find a part time job after the baby is finally in our arms. Finding a full time job is hard these days especially in my place here. lots of poeple have been layed put lately. Oh well, please include me in your prayers.
I know the feeling sis. That happened to me too.
*SIgh
I don't have regret sending money as a support to my nieces and nephew since they are abandon or neglected by their parents. What disappointed me are my siblings they are selfish. What I did, I don't give anything to them (financially or materially) I have done my part before and it looks like they never appreciated my effort. Enough is enough!Thank you for the space.
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